Jackson Free Press

In an age where couples invite guests to their wedding via Facebook events, the physical invitation has just about gone the way of the dinosaur. But when was the last time a digital notification made you as excited as opening an envelope addressed to you, or the last time you put a social-media event on the refrigerator?

You could turn to one of several local stores that offer personalized cards, invites and stationary, but as I’m a bit of a DIY-er, I like to make something totally my own. It takes a bit more time, but usually ends up saving money and adds a personal touch that your guests won’t forget.

One of my favorite techniques is to layer up bits of patterned scrapbook paper with the party information on top, punch a hole and tie it all together with a ribbon. The papers move freely so you can see more of each layer. Another fun technique is to cut a shape out of cardstock and layer patterned or glittery paper behind. If you don’t like your handwriting, just type up the details and print it out before busting out the scissors.

And don’t forget the envelope! Mixing up colors and writing styles can make for an eye-catching bit of mail, especially for a tacky sweater party.

Many so-called etiquette experts have big opinions on what is and isn’t appropriate for mail correspondence and party invitations, but I’m of the opinion that making something personal is usually more appreciated than doing what is expected or “correct.” (Just please, for goodness sake, forget the archaic rule that couples must be addressed as Mr. and Mrs. Husband’s Name).