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The Best We Can Be

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Last week, I attended one of those uniquely Jackson events that national media never seem to know about when they paint us with a broad brush. It was a performance of "Defamation," a play by a Chicago playwright that allows the audience to act as jury and decide whether a black woman or a Jewish man should win a defamation suit she brought against him because he assumed she stole a watch from him and then caused her to lose business as a result.

Much like the film "Crash," the play has all sorts of circular prejudice messages wound up in it and some powerful lessons about ingrained racism most of us never see, especially if we're white and part of the majority culture.

I enjoyed the play and the discussion, but it was a quick statement the playwright made during the Q&A afterward that stuck with me. Earlier in the week, they had performed the play for students at Lanier High School, and in a straw vote afterward, the students had split about a third for the woman, a third for the man and the third undecided.

The playwright then told us, off the cuff, that Lanier had one of the best and smartest student audiences he had encountered.

I was, and still am, stunned at how important a statement that was--and how seldom we hear it in this city where so many like to slam and stereotype our inner-city youth, especially those at Lanier, any chance they get.

The playwright wasn't being defensive; he wasn't trying to paint a rosy picture; he wasn't involved in our local race politics. He just noticed that his Lanier audience contained a lot of sharp thinkers. They were the best.

His statement left me wanting to shout: BELIEVE IN OUR KIDS AND THEN WATCH WHAT THEY CAN DO. And I don't want to just yell this at white folks and bloggers and radio-show hosts; I want to shout it at media, and their parents and teachers and professors; and at everyone who touches our young people every day. We must believe in ourselves and each other and our youth.

In a recent GOOD Ideas issue about crime, our staff went deep into research about what causes crime and how to prevent it. Not surprisingly to us, the evidence is incontrovertible that young people who hear on a regular basis that they are not worthy are much more likely to (a) believe it and (b) do things that neglected children do. One result is crime, especially for kids who have economics stacked against them and are growing up with a parent or two who went through the same cycle.

The deliciousness of hearing this playwright make this statement after "Defamation," of course, was that the play was about a racist assumption cycle: that the woman of color must have done it. In the play, even the man's accomplished black female attorney talked about how people treat her because she is black, drawing false assumptions.

Not to mention, they performed the play in a state that many people make assumptions about. Because of a relatively small handful of people with backward ideas--that we allow to control the world's impressions of us--the world looks at Mississippi and assumes that we're the most racist place on the planet. When national media parachute in, they are usually so busy looking for where we haven't changed that they don't notice the remarkable progress happening among our people (those who do notice usually remark that they never witness our kinds of frank race conversations and diversity back in their big city).

But as a result of the assumptions about us (yes, granted, self-inflicted), our residents have long believed we can't be the best--ironically proving the effect that bigotry of low expectations has on our children. I have seldom, if ever, met a Mississippian of any race that doesn't feel the weight of growing up in a state considered such a hellhole. Yes, we all get angry at media and politicians beyond our borders who treat us like we're all uneducated hicks, but how often do we collectively act to change it? How often do we get together and fight the good fight right here at home, challenging the people, political parties and corporate media chains that play us against each other and assume we're dumbasses?

Yes, some of us fight it more often than others. Sadly, though, we collectively give into it too often and just assume it can't change.

It doesn't have to be this way. Mississippians have the passion, the creativity, the humor, the hubris and the diversity to be the best state in the country for our people. Sure, we have a ways to go. But considering how awful we were on "the race question" (let's be frank: the worst and most violent in the nation) just 40 years ago, it's remarkable the progress we've made to date. Let's be proud of that.

It is time to build on that progress. And we have an incredible generation of young people now--from Lanier to Jackson Academy--who are sick and tired of the way it's been. They have action-oriented hearts and the hubris to believe they, we, can be the best right here at home. This issue is a tribute to one of them--Craig Noone, J.A. graduate--who not only believed in Jackson's foodie potential, but rallied all those foodies to help a local institution, Peaches Restaurant, survive.

Fortunately, there are others to carry on Craig's spirit of greatness. Many work, or have worked, right here at the JFP and BOOM Jackson. Last week at our staff meeting, we discussed how our mission at the JFP really comes down to one simple goal: to help Jackson, and Mississippi, be the best. That means that we have been looking for the best--instead of the worst--since our first issue in September 2002. We've believed from the start that the best is found, and cultivated, in two groups: local people and local businesses. (Our second issue in 2002 had a huge headline: "Think Global, Shop Local": a fresh idea then.)

We then asked our entire staff to identify and vote for the top ways we help find and promote the best. They chose: (1) Courageous journalism that provides research-based context to important issues; (2) Creating and building community; (3) Helping small local businesses grow; and (4) Telling readers about all the events they can support in Jackson.

This week marks the official kickoff of "Best" season in our city. We ran the area's first Best of Jackson ballot in our very first issue and announced our initial winners 10 years ago this January. We are proud to have been looking for (and expecting) the best in our city and state for 10 years. The Best of Jackson ballot is on page 17 and at bestofjackson.com.

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