Jackblog - ladd
Do I hear 15? Yes, we can!
Wow. The JFP Chick Ball raised $14,000 this year ... so far ... toward a new Freedom Van for the Center for Violence Prevention. Not to be greedy, but I sure would like to see us get up to $15,000 over the next couple weeks. Send donations of at least $15, and we'll send you a 2008 Chick Ball CD with samples of the great poetry and music you missed Saturday night. E-mail sage (at) jacksonfreepress (dot) com for details on exchanging your donation for this wonderful CD! Make checks out directly to Center for Violence Prevention and mail to: Sage Carter-Hooey, Jackson Free Press, P.O. Box 5067, Jackson, MS 39296.
Thank you one and all for making this a very special Chick Ball, for helping to save lives.
posted by ladd on 07/22/08 at 07:46 PM. [printer-friendly version]
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posted by Izzy aka Laurel Isbister on 07/25/08 at 09:07 AM
Yes, thank you, Kacy. The work continues. We must raise awareness, and money, year-round for this urgent cause. The next event coming up is the Heather's Tree benefit at Hal & Mal's on Oct. 11, hosted by friends and family of Heather Spencer. The JFP will do everything we can to help that wonderful group of people, as they helped us with the Chick Ball. To sign up to sponsor or donate, go to http://www.heatherstree.com .
And pray for the families who have lost beautiful women to domestic violence. Abusers get way too much protection from their families and society, not to mention law enforcement, and there is so much bad information out there on these issues. I was in a meeting the other day with a group of women who work on this issue, including some remarkable law-enforcement experts in the area of domestic abuse (one of the advantages of promoting awareness of this issue is meeting these kick-butt women). One of them worked directly on the Spencer case, and spoke specifically about the ignorance that justified the police dropping the felony charge, and people buying the JPD line that it was up to her to drop it. This is ignorance of the law (which is proved by the fact that the police actually charged Bell with the charge his victim was supposedly allow to drop against him once he had killed her). It is this kind of ignorance that leads our society to blame women for not leaving, even as leaving is often what gets them killed, especially when law enforcement doesn't take violence against women seriously enough.
Thank goodness for women like Heather Wagner in the AG's office, and all the other advocates who are fighting these battles of ignorance. The rest of us must step up and help them. Keep this conversation going year-round, ladies and gentlemen. Do it for Heather, and for Doris, and all the other victims of domestic abuse.
posted by ladd on 07/25/08 at 09:22 PM
I am proud to be able to help such a worthy cause. Kudos to JFP and others for calling attention to an issue which has been too long ignored and neglected. In my line of work, I have seen--up close and personal and, unfortunately, all too often--how otherwise "strong" women have inexplicably remained in physically abusive relationships. They keep thinking and hoping that it will get better, but it very rarely does.
If CVP/MS is a 501(c)(3) non profit, there may be some other support avenues that I might also be able to explore.
posted by Kacy on 07/26/08 at 02:42 PM
posted by ladd on 07/26/08 at 03:34 PM
[Kamikaze] The Media Fix Is In
J.T.: Amen to pushing a positive Jackson. And, yes, it is a movement. And, it is moving.
Aug 27, 2008 | 06:17 PM
Ban the Paddle?
ladd: A lot of kids in all our schools are "scary smart." Many just haven't had the chance to prove it, yet. On the not-know-how-to-ask-a-str anger-a-question point -- how many strangers are completely ...
Aug 27, 2008 | 05:33 PM
Ban the Paddle?
Tom Head: The kids I've met from the Jim Hill Civil Liberties Club are SCARY smart (they're not just the future; they're ready and able to get out and do stuff now), and the idea that anyone would consider ...
Aug 27, 2008 | 05:15 PM
Ban the Paddle?
ladd: you mentioned people should try to find out what is really going on with this generation. Damn right I did. And any given day, you will find up to 20 young people in their teens and 20s in my offices, ...
Aug 27, 2008 | 05:12 PM
Ban the Paddle?
ladd: Baquan, it's simple really: You generalized about all young people with statements like these: Discipline does not work any more on kids, whether it is beating them or putting them in time out. Young ...
Aug 27, 2008 | 04:49 PM
Ban the Paddle?
baquan2000: To Tom Head - lets just agree to disagree. You put yours in time out for stealing or cussing, while with mine, they will just have to meet their maker when they attempt to try it!? Sorry - I will ...
Aug 27, 2008 | 04:41 PM
Ban the Paddle?
baquan2000: Donna you did a good article a while back on this generation, where I think you mentioned people should try to find out what is really going on with this generation. Maybe what I said, was to ...
Aug 27, 2008 | 04:28 PM
Ban the Paddle?
Tom Head: Or for selling bad weed. Or for sleeping with your girlfriend. Or... Right. We teach the same pro-violence message with the Iraq War and the death penalty, too, not to mention when leaders go around ...
Aug 27, 2008 | 04:04 PM
Ban the Paddle?
ladd: That is a vast generalization about young people, baquan, and extremely offensive. I'm more impressed with young people today in their teens, and even tweens, than I ever have been. And the numbers bear ...
Aug 27, 2008 | 03:39 PM
Ban the Paddle?
baquan2000: after reading all the posts above; whatever it is we are doing; it is not working? Discipline does not work any more on kids, whether it is beating them or putting them in time out. Young men do ...

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